The biggest obstacle to building my business


Hey there Reader,

If you don't already know this about me, I've been completely self-employed for several years.

When I left my 9 to 5, I gradually worked fewer and fewer hours in my job (and more and more hours in my private practice) until I was supervising a team, but only in the office one day a week.

My boss wouldn't "let me" go. That wasn't good for me or the people on my team, and I finally gave my official notice in an executive team meeting, where my boss would have no choice but to take my resignation.

I was free!

And then the pandemic hit two months after I was officially, completely self-employed.

Even though I had saved up a financial cushion before I made the leap, as a single mom with two kids to take care of, I was panicked.

And that's when I turned to writing.

To make a long story short, the private practice survived, and so did the writing.

But this message isn't about how I survived. It's about the biggest obstacle to building my business:

  • It wasn't the boss who wouldn't "let me" go
  • It wasn't my terrible timing with the pandemic
  • It wasn't single-motherhood

It was fear.

I knew I wanted to start my own business as soon as I finished school, but I was so afraid of failure that it took me another 20 years to take the plunge.

I know now what I didn't know then: Fear is just part of the process when I'm doing something that excites me. I have to follow the advice of people I trust and breathe through the fear. So far, I've always come out on the other side.

Is there a fear holding you back from building your business? What would it look like if you came out on the other side?

Reply and let me know. I'm genuinely interested to know what it would look like for you if you let go of your fear.

All my best,
Julie

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